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[easwaran1947]

hi friends
here is a wonderful message i got in my mail box
hope this peops u up
guys

When you find yourself getting angry or resentful
it is natural to start blaming. First, you yell;
then the argument escalates into damaging
accusations.

Be aware that when you do this, it only perpetuates
more hurt and anger, To avoid painful words, stop and
think about how you feel and why. This will dissolve the
negative energy right away, and help you to move to a
place where you can focus on what is most important.

After you're clear about how you feel, focus on your
needs. Ask yourself what you need to feel better
about the situation. It may be as simple as a phone call.

Next time anger strikes, take a moment to focus on your
feelings and needs. Share them in a non-threatening
way, to replace hurt and anger with happiness


This is the day that you are alive. This is the moment that you are in.

All your hopes and dreams are real right now. All your possibilities are ready to be lived.

Everything you've ever done has led you to this point. You are more fully alive, aware, experienced and prepared than you have ever been.

What matters is not how old or how young you may think you are. What matters is making the most of this moment you now have.

What matters is not how much or how little you may think you have, how fairly or unfairly you may think life has treated you. What matters is that you make the most of who you are.

This is it. This is your moment to fill with the best you can imagine.

Live it with love, with purpose and joy.


If you really want it, you will have it. If it means enough to you, it will happen.

For if you really want it, you will find a way. You'll stop making excuses and start making it real.

The obstacles you encounter are not there to prevent you from reaching your goal. The obstacles are there to make sure you really want it.

When you really want it, you'll find a way around, under, above or through each one of those obstacles. And as you do, you'll be literally creating the value of what you intend to achieve.

When you really want it enough, it is in many ways already yours. Full and complete attainment then becomes a matter of going through the motions and following a path that leads surely there.

Decide what you really want, and be careful what you decide upon. For when you truly want it, you will make it so.

Ralph Marston



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