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taruj White Belt
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Post: #1 Posted: Wed Aug 07, 2013 12:36 pm Post subject: Sad to see... |
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SB and forums are really cool places. Lots of learning, lots of knowledge.
unfortunately, I have seen recently that very very knowledgeable and (probably) successful people trying to demoralize others.
in fact I have even noticed that some one following a strategy / method is being criticized and worse "value added upon" by some people.
is iCharts no longer a cool place? or is this the third emotion playing out "jealousy".
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apka Black Belt
Joined: 13 Dec 2011 Posts: 6137
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Post: #2 Posted: Wed Aug 07, 2013 12:55 pm Post subject: |
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i think icharts is pretty cool. we have all kinds of chartists and TA readers here. we are civil on forums... about SB i dont know. |
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pkholla Black Belt
Joined: 04 Nov 2010 Posts: 2890
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Post: #3 Posted: Wed Aug 07, 2013 1:08 pm Post subject: |
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tarujbhai: i agree with apka.
moreover, instead of making us ALL feel guilty by vague statements which can apply to ANYBODY, I think you should approach IC admin directly and file specific complaints about people harassing you or your friends. I assure you they act fast and decisively. Thank you in advance, Prakash Holla |
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ProTrader Site Admin
Joined: 06 Jul 2008 Posts: 433
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Post: #4 Posted: Wed Aug 07, 2013 2:22 pm Post subject: |
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Dear Taruj:
Criticism is part and parcel of life..kabhi boss..kabhi dost..kabhi client..kabhi daddy...kabhi biwi .
When someone doesnt want to look at others input objectively, they will criticize.
When someone is looking at others input and provide suggestions, it can also be perceived as criticism.
In both the cases we need to smile . In the first case, it will give you the strength to ignore noise and in the second case you will be able to fine tune if required.
Let not someone else control your emotions. They are yours .
Regards,
ProTrader
--With wings made of paper, it flies, going where it should not be.. |
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bharatpatel White Belt
Joined: 26 Oct 2011 Posts: 401
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Post: #5 Posted: Wed Aug 07, 2013 2:31 pm Post subject: Hi |
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Dear P T Sir,
Sometimes i think if you were not at icharts.in , you could be a successful motivational trainer or something like that.
All the best.
Bharat. |
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veerappan Expert
Joined: 19 Dec 2007 Posts: 3680
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Post: #6 Posted: Wed Aug 07, 2013 3:25 pm Post subject: Re: Sad to see... |
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taruj wrote: | SB and forums are really cool places. Lots of learning, lots of knowledge.
unfortunately, I have seen recently that very very knowledgeable and (probably) successful people trying to demoralize others.
in fact I have even noticed that some one following a strategy / method is being criticized and worse "value added upon" by some people.
is iCharts no longer a cool place? or is this the third emotion playing out "jealousy".
-regards |
taruj better be witness on sb.... its best... .... i started already.... |
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ProTrader Site Admin
Joined: 06 Jul 2008 Posts: 433
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Post: #7 Posted: Wed Aug 07, 2013 3:39 pm Post subject: |
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Dear Veera:
Its your choice, but I dont agree that if someone criticize, you avoid SB or forum or anything . By doing this you are creating this wall of avoidance, which is the second easiest thing to do (first is to get angry and retaliate).
When someone criticize, either we get angry or dissapointed.
I often see this pattern. It may also have to do with our genetic makeup .
See 95 year old dada vasvani..ever smiling.
Regards,
PT |
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ProTrader Site Admin
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Post: #8 Posted: Wed Aug 07, 2013 3:42 pm Post subject: Re: Hi |
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Thanks Bharat. It gives me hope, that I can be assured of food on my table even if I fail as a trader . |
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veerappan Expert
Joined: 19 Dec 2007 Posts: 3680
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Post: #9 Posted: Wed Aug 07, 2013 4:31 pm Post subject: |
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ProTrader wrote: | Dear Veera:
Its your choice, but I dont agree that if someone criticize, you avoid SB or forum or anything . By doing this you are creating this wall of avoidance, which is the second easiest thing to do (first is to get angry and retaliate).
When someone criticize, either we get angry or dissapointed.
I often see this pattern. It may also have to do with our genetic makeup .
See 95 year old dada vasvani..ever smiling.
Regards,
PT |
pt anna mmm... got the point ....duty duty .... y shd we bother about any one... rightoooooooooooo..... .... tarzone.... come back with flow... .... pt anna still i am in the path of arjuna... |
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jaimaalaxmi White Belt
Joined: 19 Jan 2012 Posts: 7
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Post: #10 Posted: Wed Aug 07, 2013 5:11 pm Post subject: |
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veera u hav given me differnt view about market,,,,so never avoid sb,,forum,,ur gr8 guidence is very nessery for novic trader like me,,,,veera ur way of seeeing market is awesome,,,, |
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taruj White Belt
Joined: 20 Apr 2011 Posts: 260
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Post: #11 Posted: Wed Aug 07, 2013 5:38 pm Post subject: |
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I said what I had to say.
I felt bad when I saw I guy being asked to leave a particular thread since his calculations were "complex".
I felt bad when a specific swing trader constantly talk down to some intraday traders because he/she thinks, that the way the intra guys trade is not "right"
I never even thought that there will be so many replies and from PT Sir and Veera. I earlier thought of putting a one-on-one response to all the response. but then I realized everyone thought, I or my friend(s) are being harassed. I was talking in general about the way some people write in SB and Forums.
Tarzone is here only veera!
PT Sir: I am may suck at trading but I dont plan to avoid anything. Because even the BHeads of the world might teach something.
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apka Black Belt
Joined: 13 Dec 2011 Posts: 6137
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Post: #12 Posted: Wed Aug 07, 2013 5:44 pm Post subject: |
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taruj wrote: | I said what I had to say.
I felt bad when I saw I guy being asked to leave a particular thread since his calculations were "complex".
I felt bad when a specific swing trader constantly talk down to some intraday traders because he/she thinks, that the way the intra guys trade is not "right"
I never even thought that there will be so many replies and from PT Sir and Veera. I earlier thought of putting a one-on-one response to all the response. but then I realized everyone thought, I or my friend(s) are being harnessed. I was talking in general about the way some people write in SB and Forums.
Tarzone is here only veera!
PT Sir: I am may suck at trading but I dont plan to avoid anything. Because even the BHeads of the world might teach something. |
I dont know about others, but I have visited other forums and nowhere there is discipline and focused discussion as there is on icharts. And keeping topics separate is vital part. The particular thread you are talking about, earlier also few times ppl have been asked to not mix the purpose of the thread... and not just on that thread, this thing everyone knows on icharts whoever posts, we don't try to mix content. So not sure why you feel bad. |
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twist
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Post: #13 Posted: Wed Aug 07, 2013 6:00 pm Post subject: |
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taruj ignore that swing trader he is a looser |
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umesh1 Brown Belt
Joined: 24 Nov 2008 Posts: 1974
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Post: #14 Posted: Wed Aug 07, 2013 6:24 pm Post subject: |
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See 95 year old dada vasvani..ever smiling.
Regards,
PT[/quote]
Hari Om Sai,Dhaadi Khushi thi tavah Dada Vaswani khe yaad kayao aahe |
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taruj White Belt
Joined: 20 Apr 2011 Posts: 260
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Post: #15 Posted: Wed Aug 07, 2013 6:47 pm Post subject: |
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apka wrote: | taruj wrote: | I said what I had to say.
I felt bad when I saw I guy being asked to leave a particular thread since his calculations were "complex".
I felt bad when a specific swing trader constantly talk down to some intraday traders because he/she thinks, that the way the intra guys trade is not "right"
I never even thought that there will be so many replies and from PT Sir and Veera. I earlier thought of putting a one-on-one response to all the response. but then I realized everyone thought, I or my friend(s) are being harnessed. I was talking in general about the way some people write in SB and Forums.
Tarzone is here only veera!
PT Sir: I am may suck at trading but I dont plan to avoid anything. Because even the BHeads of the world might teach something. |
I dont know about others, but I have visited other forums and nowhere there is discipline and focused discussion as there is on icharts. And keeping topics separate is vital part. The particular thread you are talking about, earlier also few times ppl have been asked to not mix the purpose of the thread... and not just on that thread, this thing everyone knows on icharts whoever posts, we don't try to mix content. So not sure why you feel bad. |
If you think that writing "get out of this thread because what you write is bullcrap" was OKAY, I will accept I am being overly sensitive and foolish.
Yes keeping topics separate is vital. is it really that important that we forget that the other guy is a human being? we shoo him/her away? what about manners and being polite ?? people may have been asked to not to mix up threads to keep it clean and readable. but what was said to him was very uncool .
my apologies sir, if I have made a mistake. and yes if you are still not sure why I felt bad, okay I am probably not able to explain. |
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